Online dating or meeting people online are getting more and more common these days. Even though I helped built a social networking site before, personally I still resist the idea of meeting my other half online. Maybe because I am a female, but I think it's a lot safer to make new friends in person rather than via computers and an internet connection.
Well, despite of what I've just said, lately I have been trying out an online dating site. I don't feel like I am in a hurry to find a boyfriend, but I do hope that in the future I would have someone to spend the rest of my life with. And because my social circle is so small, I can't really meet new people in my daily life, so maybe an online dating site is the way to go. However, it hasn't been going well. I have yet to find someone who shares mutual interests with me. I mean, there are guys who are interested in me, but I am not interested in them at all. And the guys that I am interested in are not interested in me. So...it's a struggle.
I am a little bit frustrated because I don't know if I should do something special to draw more attention on myself. I strongly believe that I should tell others the true side of me and let them decide whether they want to become friends or develop a relationship with me. I don't want to pretend to be someone else just so that others would like me. But then, I am not really a likable person in the first place--it takes a while to break the ice.
Anyway, I guess I will just wait until my three-month subscription ends and see the results. I believe in fate. If I were meant to meet someone, then someday somehow that person would find his way into my life. If not, I think I can survive on my own. :)
Well, despite of what I've just said, lately I have been trying out an online dating site. I don't feel like I am in a hurry to find a boyfriend, but I do hope that in the future I would have someone to spend the rest of my life with. And because my social circle is so small, I can't really meet new people in my daily life, so maybe an online dating site is the way to go. However, it hasn't been going well. I have yet to find someone who shares mutual interests with me. I mean, there are guys who are interested in me, but I am not interested in them at all. And the guys that I am interested in are not interested in me. So...it's a struggle.
I am a little bit frustrated because I don't know if I should do something special to draw more attention on myself. I strongly believe that I should tell others the true side of me and let them decide whether they want to become friends or develop a relationship with me. I don't want to pretend to be someone else just so that others would like me. But then, I am not really a likable person in the first place--it takes a while to break the ice.
Anyway, I guess I will just wait until my three-month subscription ends and see the results. I believe in fate. If I were meant to meet someone, then someday somehow that person would find his way into my life. If not, I think I can survive on my own. :)
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